Bullying

From Bothered to Brave: Coaching Boys to Be Active Bystanders

How parents can help boys interrupt sexism before it becomes sexual violence

Note: This post references sexual assault. It does not include graphic descriptions or details. My adolescent sons had already heard about the “Cornell 7” before I checked in with them about it. It had already popped up in their YouTube feeds and filtered into conversations at school. The details of this alleged case of sexual…  Read More →

AI-Generated Images, Real Harm: Talking to Teens About Grok

“How is that allowed?” my middle schooler asked me recently. My son had just learned that Elon Musk’s AI chatbot and image generator, Grok, was being used within X to “undress” existing images of people online. We had already talked about nudify and “undressing” apps (add this to the growing list of awkward but essential…  Read More →

A teen and technology listening to headphones while on her phone

6 Common Worries About Technology and Teens

What's the Reality?

Technology and teens. If you are anything like me, on any given day you vacillate wildly between, “Technology is amazing! What a time to be alive!” and, “Throw. It. Out. The. Window.” Such is parenting life in the digital age. News headlines exacerbate our ambivalence. Media reports convince us that social media is the key…  Read More →

Teen looking sadly at phone while two other teens laugh in the background, indicating that she is experiencing cyberbullying.

Cyberbullying Tips

Preparing our children for kindness online and offline is part of raising kids in the 21st century. It can be tempting to wait until there is an incident to have serious conversations about cyberbullying, cruelty and online drama with your kids. Yet our kids need us to talk early and talk often. As soon as…  Read More →