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“Adults Always Try to Fix Things”: On Showing Up For the Hard Moments

This past summer we had to say an unexpected goodbye to our beloved family dog, Tuney. There is often a predictable response to the loss of a pet: the feeling that this grief isn’t as important as other, bigger losses in the world…followed by relentless sobbing.  After all, family is family. Grief is grief. The…  Read More →

What to Prioritize This School Year (Beyond the Supply List)

“Didn’t we just buy a college rule composition notebook?” I asked my high schooler.  “I think so, but I can’t find it,” he replied.  The same conversation ensued about mechanical pencils and then again about folders. It seems that every school supply item had somehow vanished the night before school began.  Rest assured, we eventually…  Read More →

Meta’s Moment of Accountability? What to Know and Where to Go From Here

One phrase I hear over and over again from parents when it comes to raising kids in a digital world: “This is exhausting.” Exhaustion makes sense. In the absence of meaningful legislation or tech accountability, we’ve outsourced the burden of online safety almost entirely to parents and kids. Tech companies have consistently prioritized profit over…  Read More →

The Conversations We Can’t Opt Out Of: Teens, AI, and Sexual Content

“I have barely figured out how to talk to my kids about viewing online porn,” a parent shared with me recently. “It’s so overwhelming to think about them or their friends creating sexual content. The AI stuff is just so overwhelming. Can I just opt out of this altogether? I want to opt out!” she…  Read More →

Six Things Teens Wish We Understood About Their Digital Lives

“What do you wish adults better understood about your relationship with technology?” I asked this question to a group of seven high school student leaders last week, in front of an audience of one hundred and fifty educators. I was lucky enough to share a conference keynote stage with a group of thoughtful young people…  Read More →

Bodies, Bots, and the Talks Kids Need

“What kinds of questions feel easier to ask AI than a human?” This is a question that the Harvard Graduate School of Education’s Center for Digital Thriving has been encouraging adults to ask young people since ChatGPT and other models burst onto the scene a few years ago. Now, a national survey from Common Sense…  Read More →

Screens, Shark Music, and Noticing the Kid in Front of You

“I need to figure out how to approach my kids differently when they are on their devices. The moment I see my kid on his phone, I tense up,” a parent recently shared. “What do you think is going on?” I asked. “I’m not sure. Maybe I can feel a battle coming,” she replied. Then…  Read More →

How Can We Not Dance? In Support of Book Joy

“Make some noise if you love to read!” I could barely make out the last word before the entire playground erupted in cheers. To add excitement to the already-pumped up crowd, the DJ transitioned into Golden. Even kids who had chosen monkey bars over the dance party were now convinced to join the blacktop dance…  Read More →

Getting Closer: What New Research Reveals About Teens, AI, and the Relationships That Matter

“Get closer!” my son said. I was standing in front of a giant piece of art that spanned half the wall. The image was completely captivating and I was reluctant to lose the perspective I had from across the room. My kid, on the other hand, was nearly climbing into the artwork. His insistence, and…  Read More →

Four Months Into Australia’s Social Media Ban: What We’re Learning

“I love the Australia ban,” a parent said to me recently. “I wish we would do something like that in our country.”  “Say more,” I responded with curiosity.  “Honestly, it just feels good to see someone actually do something. I’m not sure if it will work, but it just feels good to take action.”  The…  Read More →