Media Agreements

First Phones, Training Wheels, and the Science of Starting Slow

What New Research Can (and Can’t) Tell Us About the Right Age for a First Smartphone

“Your phone is blowing up!” a friend noticed during a walk together. “Everything okay?”  I laughed and showed her the avalanche of cow, sunglass-smiley-face, and poop emojis pouring down my phone screen. “Ah. New smartwatch?” she asked.  “Yup,” I responded.  A persistent string of nonsensical emojis is typical for a pre-teen exploring what’s possible on…  Read More

ChatGPT’s New Parental Controls: What Parents Need to Know

Whenever I hear about a new set of parental controls, two feelings rise up immediately: relief and resentment. Relief that the industry is responding to parental concerns and acknowledging that young people aren’t mini-adults. Settings that help parents protect their kids from harm are not “nice to have” in 2025; they are essential. Resentment because we…  Read More

When Screen Time Rules Fall Apart

When my family had a conversation about summer screen time a month ago, our agreements and ideas felt so full of promise. They didn’t result from an idyllic family summit or long formal meeting, but the conversation was earnest and grounded in our most positive vision of what life could look like in the ever-shifting…  Read More