This past summer we had to say an unexpected goodbye to our beloved family dog, Tuney. There is often a predictable response to the loss of a pet: the feeling that this grief isn’t as important as other, bigger losses in the world…followed by relentless sobbing. After all, family is family. Grief is grief. The… Read More →
We humans love stories. We love telling them and listening to them. Stories are how we communicate who we are and who we want to be. One of the best parts of parenting is curling up with kids to read a good story. But stories don’t always start with “once upon a time.” We create… Read More →
I am the kind of person who organizes my life around traditions. There is a joke in our community that once we do something once, we put it on the calendar in perpetuity. These traditions and rituals shift and change over time, but they still function as the glue that holds us together. I gathered… Read More →
First comes the violence. Then comes its rapid spread across the internet. Sadly, political and interpersonal violence is not new. What is unique to this generation is the proliferation of graphic content online. Raw footage of political assassinations, war crimes, racialized violence, and sexual assault can spread quickly in the wake of acts of violence,… Read More →
“Are you excited about middle school?” a well-meaning employee asked my soon-to-be sixth grader last week. She was doing her best to make conversation as she scanned our pile of college-ruled notebooks at checkout. “I guess so,” my youngest replied, his tone suggesting he was trying to convince himself. Later in the car, he added,… Read More →
“Just checking in! How is everybody doing?” When Elmo asked this question on X in January 2024, no one expected it would generate 180 million views within just two days. Initial responses were light and playful. But people across the internet quickly began sharing more honest status updates, including feelings of distress, loneliness, challenge, and… Read More →
Summer arrives, and it’s easy to get caught up in planning—camps, childcare, screen time limits, and all the logistics that come with the shift. I approach this season with mixed feelings: part of me craves the slower pace and open-ended days; another part already anticipates the chaos of too much unstructured time. For many families,… Read More →
In the past five years every major organization dedicated to adolescent health and development has sounded the alarm on mental health. There has been a cascade of articles trying to answer the question, “What is going on here?” While it’s tempting to pin the blame for these trends on one factor, let’s be wary of… Read More →
For parents navigating stressful events, it’s natural to focus on the question, “What should we say to our kids?” Words do matter. Talking to children can help them make sense of the experience, find reassurance, and share their emotions. But talking isn’t the only way to manage big feelings. Children don’t process everything through words… Read More →
“That part is about me!” my youngest remarked proudly as we read our family poem out loud. Without hearing his name, he knew that the phrase “planetary sparkle” was his part of our story. We had just finished a personalized family poetry session with Spark & Stitch partner poet Diver Van Avery. It had begun… Read More →
